

THE PENDULUM SWINGS. It’s one of life’s absolutes. Things change, even on Center Island.
I started “Cantwell’s Reef” six years ago with the loosely defined purpose of writing about “ditching the office and making a life on a small island nobody’s heard of.”
The love of my life, Barbara, was my partner in that adventure. The bustling Seattle Times newsroom was the office I had fled. In countless blog posts, I told about learning our way as full-time Center Islanders, situating a cool old boat at the dock and a tough old pickup truck on neighboring Lopez Island. Month after month, my writing marked the turning of seasons, with the arrival of enchanting wildflowers, summer dog days, autumn harvest fairs and winter snows. It’s been a full life.
Now, I turn to my exit strategy.
Cancer took Barbara from me in 2021. The Times newsroom is but a distant memory to me, and in the wake of COVID many staffers work from home. To everything there is a season. Turn, turn, turning pages.
Since Barbara’s death, Galley Cat and I have toughed it out here on our own for three years, but it’s time to look for a new home with more social engagement.
That bell tolled in a way I couldn’t ignore when The Mad Birder and his spouse, my next-door neighbors who have become dear friends and frequent dinner hosts, announced recently that they were putting their cabin up for sale.
The MB just turned 70, and it seems that continuing health challenges and the march of time told him and his dear wife it was time to simplify life and solidify their base in Skagit County, where they have another home.
That seemed like a sign. It is time for me to think about moving on. I will hate to leave this beautiful place, this comfortable cabin, this friendly little island, and my perfect writing hut. But the time is coming.
I won’t move quickly. It will be at least a year before Nuthatch Cabin is ready to put on the market. That deck rebuild needs finishing, for one. An electrical circuit needs repair, the chimney needs replacing, the roof needs a good cleaning, etc. I have no idea where all the travel souvenirs and family mementos will go; I long ago vowed: No more storage units. If I want to flush money away, I own a toilet.
There are challenges, of the type faced by many of my peers in the 65-and-older crowd.
If I sell the house I live in now, which just fits in my retirement budget, will I be able to afford replacement housing anywhere nearby?
I’ve heard the same quandary from friends. Home prices in Western Washington — and pretty much anywhere down the West Coast — are crazy high. And nobody I know wants to move to Arkansas or Oklahoma or pretty much anywhere that’s considered affordable. Most are red states. No thank you.
Because of Barbara’s illness, I retired early, meaning my retirement savings and Social Security income took a hit. The silver lining is that I qualify for housing programs aimed at the low- and middle-income populace.
In choosing a new locale, I have a growing wish list, beyond basic political compatibility. I’m hoping for good parks and trails and maybe a hiking club. A pleasant and walkable downtown with a good coffeehouse or two. I’d like to be near water so I can keep and enjoy my great little boat. I’d like the option of satisfying part-time work as well as volunteer opportunities. Good healthcare. A lively arts scene.
A place where I already have friends would be a big plus.
With the help of friends, I’ve started looking. Daniel and Jean Farber some months ago launched a campaign to get me back to their hometown of Olympia, where I shared a 1970s college-days house with Daniel and fellow students of The Evergreen State College. The latest development: They offered and I accepted a six-week housesitting gig late this fall while they spend quality time with a new grandson in California.

The Oly time will help me decide if that’s where I want to live again, with plenty of time to look at the local housing stock and living costs. Galley Cat will accompany me, which is great, though I’m sure she’ll miss roaming the island woods.
No sooner did I announce my Olympia plan than friends on San Juan Island countered with a strategy to keep me in the islands. (It’s nice to be wanted.)
Barbara Marrett and Bill Watson educated me about various affordable-housing projects in and around Friday Harbor. When I visited them recently, Barbara generously drove me around town to inspect every one of those housing developments, including one cluster that consisted of charming old homes that had been lifted from their original sites and barged to Friday Harbor from Victoria, B.C. The San Juan Community Home Trust keeps homes affordable, in part, by selling the house only. Buyers than lease the homesite from the trust at a low monthly rate. There are many such tools to create alternatives to traditional market pricing.

San Juan Community Home Trust photo
When I had lunch with a new friend on Lopez last week, he told me that Lopez, too, has an affordable-housing project worth a look. While Olympia has its allures, I would love to stay in the San Juans.
So that’s Chapter 1 in the Great Center Island Exit Strategy. More ideas are welcome, shoot me a note. I’ll keep you posted, my friends.


Hi Brian, Best of luck finding a place for the next chapter. David’s folks are
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Hi Lynn, Thanks for the comment on my blog! For some reason, only a fragment came through. 😦 I hope you’re having fun being a granny! Brian
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Good for you, Brian. Many good choices. Olalla?
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I loved our St. Patrick’s Day fun at the old Olalla community hall, Dave! Will add Olalla to the list!
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Hi Brian, My husband and I had lot #96 on Center for about five years. We loved visiting Center Island — the calm and quiet. Dave died in October and I sold our cabin on Center Island, our house on Bow Hill, and almost everything else. I bought a log home on Guemes Island and am so happy to be here. I’m offering up the idea as a possibility for you — robust music and art scene, multiple daily ferry runs to walk or ride to Anacortes. A quiet island experience, but with just a little more convenience than Center Island. I publish a weekly blog, and a lot (but not all) of my posts are reflections on new Guemes experiences: The blog – Zen Valley Tangle https://zenvalleytangle.com/the-blog/ I hope you find the spot where you need to be, regardless of whether it’s Guemes. ~Sara Harlan
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Hello Sara, thanks for weighing in. I’m so sorry you lost Dave. It sounds like you’ve made some fast and good choices for your future. Interestingly, my neighbors who are selling have been looking at Guemes. I will take a look at your blog. Best wishes to you!
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That’s strange that comments are being cut short!
Anyway, I said that it sounds like you’re moving along with decisions, and have some options. Maybe we can visit in Olympia while you’re housesitting this fall. I know you really liked your neighbors, so it will be be sad to see them relocate so far away I’m sure. The little houses on San Juan look really interesting!
Carol
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Would be great to see you and Tom in Oly this fall, Carol. Maybe you can help me decide. 🙂
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Hello, friend. I’m sorry for your loss. Was just thinking about you because of the reunion this weekend. I would love to connect with you again. Take care and good luck with the move.
Leslie Kelly
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It would be great to see you again, Leslie. Might you be at the reunion with your Class of ’74 hubby?
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